A compassionate funeral celebrant in Konstanz and around Lake Constance

A dignified farewell, with words that bring comfort and strength. As a funeral celebrant and pastor based in Konstanz, I conduct funeral services in Konstanz, Singen, Radolfzell and all around Lake Constance. We will walk this path together, one step at a time.

Even at short notice – I’ll get back to you quickly.

A jetty on Lake Constance in the morning mist
Silas Horváth

We’ll walk this path together

Saying goodbye to someone you love is one of the hardest things in life. At a time like this, you don’t have to carry it all alone. I’ll listen, take the time to hear your memories, and find words that do justice to your loved one’s life.

Together, we’ll create a funeral service that brings comfort, pays tribute and will long be remembered. And of course, it’s entirely up to you whether to include religious elements.

I give eulogies in Konstanz, Radolfzell, Singen, Stockach, Überlingen, all around Lake Constance, in the Hegau and in Thurgau: in funeral halls, cemetery chapels, churches and outdoors. I coordinate the order of service directly with your funeral director.

My funeral services are for people who …

… want a personal farewell

Not an off-the-peg speech, but words that honour your loved one’s life with honesty and love.

… don’t feel connected to any church

Or who very much do: you decide whether religious elements are part of the service, and to what extent.

… need someone who will listen

During these difficult days, I take the time to listen to your memories and walk alongside you as you prepare.

… are looking for support and structure

I take care of the order of service, the arrangements with the funeral director and the service itself. You don’t have to carry everything on your own.

How I support you

1

Initial conversation

At your home or by phone: I listen and get to know the person we are saying goodbye to.

2

Shaping the service

I write a personal eulogy and agree the music and order of service with you and the funeral director.

3

The funeral service

I lead the service with dignity, so that you can focus entirely on saying goodbye.

Silas Horváth

Help with the practical details

Music

Music has the power to touch the soul, especially where words fall short. Together, we can choose favourite pieces, live music or recordings, and I’ll weave them into the service at just the right moments.

Sound & equipment

Whether it’s a funeral hall, a cemetery chapel or an outdoor service, I’ll check in advance what equipment is available on site and, if needed, bring a portable sound system with me.

Checklist for families

What needs to be organised in the first few days? I’ll give you a concise checklist (from the funeral director to the paperwork) during our initial conversation.

Other service providers

If you would like a photographer or videographer to capture the funeral service and the gathering afterwards, I’m glad to recommend people I trust. If there are other service providers you would like to involve, just let me know. I’m always happy to help with recommendations.

Frequently asked questions about eulogies

Do we need to belong to a particular denomination?

No. My funeral services are open to everyone, whatever their denomination or beliefs.

Can religious elements be included – or deliberately left out?

Both are possible. It’s your choice – from an entirely secular service to one with prayer and a blessing. We’ll discuss this, without any pressure, in our initial conversation.

Do you work with our funeral director?

Yes, of course. I coordinate the order of service, the date and time, and the technical side directly with your funeral director. That’s one less thing for you to worry about.

How quickly can you step in?

I know that when someone dies, there is often very little time. Please do get in touch, even at short notice. I respond quickly and can almost always make it work.

Will you travel to us?

Lake Constance is my home, but I’m happy to come wherever the farewell takes place. We can sort out the details together.

What does the preparation involve, and how much time should we set aside?

We begin with a gentle initial conversation – at your home in familiar surroundings, somewhere else that’s quiet, or online. Please allow about one to two hours for this. There’s nothing you need to prepare, except for a questionnaire I’ve written, which I’ll ask you to fill in before we meet. Taking all the time we need, we’ll talk through the memories and stories that matter to you, and from them I’ll write the eulogy.

Evening sky over Lake Constance

Get in touch

Tell me briefly about your situation, and I’ll get back to you personally and promptly. Short-notice enquiries are no problem.

Silas Horváth Would you rather speak to me personally? +49 176 2002 7971 Please feel free to call me directly, even at short notice.

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